CHARLSEY CHILDERS
"But I'm doing all the right things...right?"
I get it. When you’re showing up, doing what you know to do, and it still feels like you’re spinning your wheels—it’s frustrating, exhausting, and makes you wonder if you’re missing something.
I’ve been there too and know what it’s like to pour your energy into something that’s supposed to work and still feel like it’s not quite clicking. Like no matter how much you refine the strategy, push harder, or tweak the approach, the flow just isn’t there.
Keep reading, because I want to share my journey of feeling exactly that—how I went from chasing the “right” way to finally realizing that I wasn’t meant to force my calling into a structure that wasn’t built for it… and how everything shifted when I allowed myself to do it my way.
I Thought Hustling Was the Answer—Until I Realized This
In this video, I share how I did everything I thought I was ‘supposed’ to do—following all the strategies, checking all the boxes—yet things still felt harder than they needed to be. My breakthrough came when I realized I wasn’t meant to force my calling into someone else’s formula. When I finally let go of the pressure to ‘get it right’ and allowed my calling to unfold in a way that felt true to me, everything shifted. If you’ve ever felt like you’re pushing, striving, or trying to make things happen—this video is for you.
Maybe You Can Relate to This
You followed the nudge, launched your virtual assistant business last year, and just invested in a top-tier social media course 🎉– now, you’re staring at yet another "Find Your Niche" worksheet. You've done this exercise before, but here you are again, blank screen 💻, blinking cursor, and feeling like something it's clicking. An hour goes by as you type and delete different options. There are so many choices, but none of them give you that “HELL YES” feeling. You don’t want to seem indecisive, so you just pick something. Yet, the excitement isn’t there. What was supposed to feel like momentum now feels like just another chore. Your coach tells you it’s just fear of failure, but you're starting to wonder... "is it fear? Or is something genuinely off?" 🤔
You’re lying in bed, wide awake, staring at the ceiling, your brain still buzzing from the non-stop day you just had. Your calendar 📅 is packed—investor meetings and more "opportunities" to move your dreams forward. Today, you had back-to-back Zoom calls, barely a moment to breathe. Now running on fumes. 😫 You love what you do, but instead of feeling accomplished and like you're walking in your calling, you feel drained, wondering, "If I'm doing everything right, why does it feel so exhausting?" The thought of doing it all over again tomorrow makes you want to scream. You ask yourself, 'How long can I actually keep this up?'
You’ve been dreaming about pursuing something more meaningful for months. 💥 You know there is something more for you. The fire is there. But every time you sit down to figure out your next step, you wind up feeling even more confused. Today, you spent hours brainstorming your next move, ✍️ and somehow ended up more uncertain than when you started. You want to trust yourself, but the constant second-guessing keeps pulling you back. You feel like you're running in circles, 🏃♂️ wondering, 'Why can't I just figure this out already?'
You’re staring 👀 at the starter kit you got from the network marketing company you just joined. At the time, it felt like the opportunity that would allow you to live your dream of retiring your spouse and traveling the world. ✈️🌎 But now? It feels like those products are staring back at you. You read through the guidelines-- what to post, how to sell, the event— and feel your creativity shrinking by the second. You're already checking for the return address, but a new fear creeps in... "If not this, then what?" 🤷 How many times are you going to invest in something only to end up back at square one?
You’ve been showing up for your mission—putting in the work, building your name, and doing everything you’ve been told to do. But then… another expert drops a post implying, “If you’re not doing ___, you’re doing it wrong.” 🎤 Cue the sinking feeling. You’ve poured so much time and effort into making this work. But every time you see another piece of advice—another “winning strategy” that you should be using—you start to wonder: "Am I doing this all wrong? Is this why I’m not further along?" You remind yourself that you’re in this for the long game, but that nagging thought won’t let up. You’ve been showing up. You’ve been putting in the effort. But seeing yet another “perfect formula” makes you feel like you’re constantly just shy of figuring it all out. Will it ever click?
This can’t be the way to my calling, can it?!
Your Calling Was Never Meant to Feel Like a Corporate Hustle
If you’re here, you already know there’s more for you. More joy, more impact, more freedom, more purpose, more life. And you’re willing to go for it—even if you don’t have all the answers yet.
But let’s be honest… the way you’ve been going about it?
It feels like you're throwing darts in the dark, hoping one finally hits the target—but the more you try, the more unsure you feel about where you're even aiming.
You're tired of trying to reach clarity through yet another strategy, certification, or training...
You're tired of waiting for the perfect opportunity to land in your lap—afraid to make a move until you’re absolutely certain it's the right one…
You're tired of pushing harder—trying to get it right, say it right, do it right... yet still feeling like you're missing something.
Like the go-getter you are, you double down. You take another course. Tweak your website. Rework your portfolio. Try a different style. Follow the latest trends. Look at what’s working for other people and wonder if that’s the missing piece. But no matter how many strategies you try, no matter how hard you work... you still feel like you’re waiting. Waiting for things to finally click. Waiting for things to feel easier. Waiting for the moment when you finally know you’re on the right track.
You're not doing it wrong. You just have to approach this differently.
Most people go after their calling like a complicated puzzle—piecing together the right business model, audience, or strategy, convinced that once they get it just right, everything will finally fall into place.
But when it comes to your **life’s work—the mission you’re here to share with the world—**that approach doesn’t work.
It’s like trying to build a house on shaky ground, focusing on the walls and roof without making sure the foundation is solid. Or like setting out on a cross-country road trip with a GPS that only tells you the next turn after you’ve already missed it.
No wonder it feels frustrating. No wonder it feels like something’s missing. Because this kind of clarity isn’t something you force—you can’t think your way into alignment.
Your calling isn’t logical.
And when you try to figure it out through logic alone—the way we’ve all been conditioned to—you only make the road hazier.
But when you clear the noise, tune in, and move from a place of deep alignment, everything shifts. The way forward stops feeling like a riddle. Your next steps stop feeling like something you have to force. Instead, things click.
That’s exactly what we do inside Believing in Your Brilliance: Stepping Into Your Power.
But before we go any further, I need you to hear this:
There is nothing wrong with you.
You’ve spent your whole life in a world that’s trained you to rely on logic, external strategies, and “proven formulas.” It’s pulled you further and further away from your inner truth.
Now, it’s time to reconnect with that truth—so your calling doesn’t feel like a puzzle to solve. It becomes something you live, breathe, and embody.
Some call it balancing masculine and feminine energy. Others call it intuition, alignment, or stepping into your power. Whatever you call it, it’s the difference between a calling that feels forced and a calling that feels like a natural extension of who you are. And that’s exactly why I created this experience—for big dreamers like you who refuse to turn their purpose into something it was never meant to be.
A different approach to pursuing your calling—one that doesn't rely on forcing, pushing, or waiting for the "perfect" next step.
This 8-week coaching experience is designed to support you in stepping into your alignment—so you can finally stop trying to force your dreams into place and start building from a foundation that actually feels solid.
Because whether you're looking to launch your creative business, grow your practice, bring a vision to life, or step into something completely new—the way forward isn't found in another perfect strategy. It's in the way you show up for your calling.
Over the next 8 weeks, we'll shift from...
❌ Feeling like you need to make a move NOW, but not being sure if it's the right one.
❌ Waiting for clarity, timing, or the right opportunity to land in your lap.
❌ Searching for THE right way to execute your vision (hint: there isn't one)
To...
✔️ Feeling clear, calm, and steady in your path... even when the results haven't shown up yet.
✔️ Waking up excited and energized about what you're building, not exhausted from trying to "get it right."
✔️ Trusting yourself fully so decisions feel easier, momentum feels natural, and you finally feel like you're in it rather than chasing it.
By the end of Believing in Your Brilliance, my hope is that…
✨ You know you’re well on your way to the success, impact, and influence you’ve been working so hard for. No more second-guessing every move—you trust yourself, your timing, and your path, even when things don’t look perfect.
✨ You feel more connected than ever to your purpose. No more spinning your wheels trying to “figure it all out” or forcing a vision that doesn’t feel like you.
✨ You move through your days feeling lighter, freer, and more certain. You’re no longer trying to “make things happen” out of pressure—you’re creating from a place of flow.
✨ You wake up with excitement and energy—not dread. Your work, your vision, and your journey to get there feel meaningful—not like a never-ending to-do list.
✨ You stop chasing the next strategy and start trusting yourself. Because you’re no longer just checking boxes—you’re building a life and body of work that feels good every step of the way.
From there, clarity stops feeling like something you have to chase and starts feeling like something that naturally unfolds. You'll move forward with your calling in a way that feels 100% YOU and makes you excited to jump out of bed each morning.
To make sure you get the deepest level of support, the group is capped at 8 people—giving your an intimate, high-touch experience where you'll receive personalized coaching, real-time feedback, and a space to connect with others walking a similar path.
What’s included:
✔️ 8 weeks of Integrated Group Coaching (scroll down for a breakdown of each week)
✔️ A private Voxer group for real-time support, networking, and deep conversations with like-minded people.
✔️ Personalized Guidance to help you cut through the noise and get to what's real—**so you finally feel soul-aligned clearity on your purpose and next steps.
Introducing...
Imagine with me for a moment…
What if this could be your reality instead?
You’re sitting down with a niche-finding exercise—but this time, something’s different. You open your laptop and know exactly what to type. No second-guessing, no blank-screen frustration. A few months ago, this moment felt impossible—back when you kept hoping the "right answer" would come from trying harder.❤️Now you know better. The solution was never in another formula—it was in you. And instead of forcing it, you let yourself uncover it naturally.
You slide into bed, exhausted—but in the best way. 😌 You’re no longer running on fumes, pushing yourself to the brink. Your days feel full, not frantic. You’re working in a way that actually feels good—where your actions flow from a place of certainty instead of stress. 💯 And as you drift off to sleep, you realize… this is what peace feels like.
You sit at your laptop and lose track of time. ⌚ You're creating, sharing, and showing up the way you want. The words, the ideas—they just flow. And something wild happens: people start reaching out, telling you how much your work inspires them to be bold too. 🗺️ And you smile because you finally feel that way about yourself too.
You're sitting in a cozy coffee ☕ shop, enjoying a morning of focused work. As you’re outlining your business plan for the next quarter, you can’t help but smile and feel, “I’m doing it!” The pressure to "figure it all out" is gone. 📈You’ve realized that the success you desire is not something you chase–it’s something that finds you when you allow it to. Rushed decisions are a thing of the past, your momentum feels natural, and for the first time in a long time, you're not worrying about getting there; you know you already are.
You’re sitting at your desk and see a post from another expert, sharing "the one thing every creator NEEDS to do." But this time? It doesn't shake you. Instead of instantly pressing play on the episode that reveals it all, you glance and think, "That's great for them, but I know my way." No panic, no questioning—just confidence in knowing how you're building things. You've stopped chasing every strategy that crosses your feed. 👊 You may hit your goals in 6 months or not—either way, you're no longer searching for the right path; you're walking it.
Courntey White
“I really love the STOP method you shared! It’s such a great way to define where I’m at when I’m feeling overwhelmed or stuck. It’s like a little map to guide me back to a centered place.”
Krys Pappiu
"Charlsey, I was blown away by your energy and spirit. You’ve got such a gift for helping others see their true value. I’m so glad you’re owning who you are because the way you guide people into alignment brings so much value to the world!"
Carter Starr
"I really enjoyed this program. It was the push I needed to take a step back and look at the stories I’ve been telling myself about what success should look like. Through this process, I realized how much of my approach wasn’t aligned with who I truly am. It helped me see that the way I’ve been going about things no longer serves me, and now I have the clarity to shift into a more aligned, purposeful path."
Recap & Price Point
Feeling the pull to step into your power? Let's do this together!
Here’s what you’ll get inside Believing in Your Brilliance: Stepping Into Your Power:
Eight weeks of Integrated Group Coaching
This isn’t just about taking action—it’s about moving in a way that feels right for YOU. Over the next eight weeks, we’ll shift from force to flow, second-guessing to certainty, and “figuring it out” to finally feeling aligned with your vision.
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Week 1: Discovering Your Essence (The Alignment Shift)
→ Before clarity comes alignment. We'll strip away the noise and focus on who you truly are—beyond what you do—so your nesxt steps become obvious (and feel exciting). -
Week 2: Trusting the Unfolding (Fierce Trust)
→ You don’t have to micromanage your way to your purpose. This week, you’ll learn to let go of controlling every step and trust that everything will unfold in its own perfect timing. -
Week 3: Liberating Expectations (Living Beyond the ‘Right Path’)
→ The biggest myth? That there’s a single “right” way to do this. You’ll unlearn the pressure to finding the “right” path and start exploring your own way forward—without the fear of getting it wrong. -
Week 4: Harmonizing Action (Balancing Doing and Being)
→ Tired of pushing, forcing, and grinding? Here’s where we integrate aligned action—so every move you make feels natural, not like another checkbox to tick off. -
Week 5: Deepening Trust (Letting Go of Forcing)
→ What if you could let things come to you instead of always chasing them? This week is all about releasing the need to force and allowing the right opportunities to flow. -
Week 6: Embracing Evolution (Allowing Your Vision to Expand)
→ Your purpose isn’t a fixed destination. Here, you’ll learn how to let your dreams to grow and evolve—without fear, resistance, or clinging to what used to make sense. -
Week 7: Finding Flow (Tapping Into Aligned Progress)
→ Alignment is the strategy. This week, you’ll tap into a way of working and creating that feels effortless, joyful, and—finally—sustainable. -
Week 8: Living in Alignment (Trusting the Unfolding of Your Path)
→ By the end of the program, you’ll know how to stay connected to your calling, move with certainty, and trust your path—even when you can’t see every step ahead.
Plus, you'll also get:
A private Voxer group—because real transformation happens in conversation, not isolation. This is your space for support, networking, and surrounding yourself with like-minded visionaries.
Personalized guidance—not another one-size-fits-all formula, but real, soul-aligned clarity on how you’re meant to move forward.
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WHAT IS THE FORMAT OF THIS PROGRAM?Unstoppable consists of 12 self-driven, very intentional, and specifically curated lessons with psychologically-backed exercises. You also have a support community with group coaching and inspired audio riffs available to you to help you apply and deepen into the material. Once you join, the lessons and exercises are delivered to you once a week via email. You also have them conveniently available to you all the time in the Dashboard. You are truly in control here, so you get to set your own pace!
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AM I READY TO BECOME UNSTOPPABLE?Whether you are new to personal development or have been committed to becoming the best you can be, this program contains the blueprint for becoming the person you want to be. The tools and knowledge in this program are not just for "beginners." These are tools you can use for yourself, your family, and for years to come. If you resonate with all that you've read so far, you are ready to become unstoppable! Don't take my word for it though; listen to what your intuition is saying. If you feel a stirring inside or an excitement to pursue your dream feeling more confident, worthy, and secure, that is likely you're sign! You're smart; you intuitively know if this the next move you're called to make for yourself and for your dreams.
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HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO COMPLETE THE PROGRAM?Great question! And it's one of the things that makes Unstoppable is so special. The length of the program is up to YOU! You can choose your flow that best works with your schedule and your areas of focus. I recommend spending at least 10 minutes a day reading and digesting the content in the lesson you're currently on. Then intentionally practice the material throughout your day. Becoming unstoppable is a lifestyle; it isn't a goal you check off and move on from. Think of this program like your "Confidence Bible." Just like reading the Bible, the more you are "in" it, the more you get out of it. There are so many ways you can go about digesting, integrating, and embodying the material! It is up to you. You can go through each lesson one at a time and then repeat the lessons that stuck out to you the most or all of them; you can stay on one lesson until you feel like you have really absorbed the principles of that lesson; you can break down each lesson into even smaller lessons. The possibilities are up to you! I know you, you desire to be the best and have a drive for 100% success with everything you do! Success, in this program, is determined by how much you integrate and embody the material! That is how you will become internally unstoppable!
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HOW MUCH TIME DOES THIS REQUIRE?I know you are super busy and achieve more in a day than most people do in a week. Your time is valuable! YOU are valuable! I also know that mastery is your middle name. :) You love to put your best energy in everything you do, which is an amazing quality. With that said, you are, ultimately, free to focus on this program as much as you feel called to. To get the most out of this program, I recommend spending 10-15 minutes each day reading the lessons, absorbing the concepts, implementing the exercises, and engaging in the community. Then, be intentional practicing the exercises and making the lessons come alive in your own life throughout the day. You will feel a difference with this type of intention and consistency!
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I SIGNED UP! NOW WHAT?Congratulations on taking this courageous step and investing in your self! Your dreams will thank you! And I look forward to being your guide on your journey to achieving the vision you have for yourself! Now that you are officially part of the [Becoming Unstoppable] community (yay!), you will receive an email from me with your next steps (as long as technology does what I want. ha!). If you do not receive an email from me within the next 15 minutes, please email me at support@charlseychilders.com or DM me on Instagram (www.instagram.com/charlsey_childers). You can also reach out to me at any point if you encounter technical difficulties. I am here for you every step of the way and my purpose is to ensure you have the best experience possible! That is my #1 priority.
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WHAT IF I HAVE ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS?That's great! I do not want you to invest in something if you do not feel totally confident in your decision. Please email me at support@charlseychilders.com with any questions you have, and I'm happy to help you discover if this program is a good fit for you or not.
Since You Made It All the Way Here
That pull you feel—the one telling you there’s something more for you? That’s not random.
You’re meant for a life of impact, freedom, and meaning—on your terms. And deep down, you already know that.
But knowing it isn’t the same as believing in it. That’s the shift we’ll make together.
If there’s even a part of you that’s saying yes—that’s nudging you to take this step—trust that. Let’s stop forcing, stop second-guessing, and start moving in a way that actually feels good.
Join us, and let’s build from alignment first—because when you do, everything else clicks into place.
I believe in your brilliance. Now it’s time for you to believe in it, too.